Change your paradigms and you will change the way you live. This takes some time but will be a positive change in your life and lifestyle. We all deserve to live in an emotionally stable environment. If you are not in an emotionally stable environment then change is necessary so may grow and enjoy life to its fullest.
You are never stuck and change begins with you and you only. We live in a free country and you are free to choose your path. It takes no more energy to work at being positive than it takes to work at being negative. The vibrations you give off to others are what you will get back in return. If you are positive then you will get back positive reactions.
CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU, NO ONE ELSE. DID I SAY NO ONE ELSE.
You are only the victim if you allow yourself to be the victim. Don't be a victim of your own circumstances. You can change by by starting to be true to yourself about how you want to live your life.
Think about your job and your life and answer this question?